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Fleshlight & Better Sex Essentials™ Gel Lube

Item# 4414
Backordered - Ships 9/6/2014
Price: $64.95
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Fleshlight & Better Sex Essentials™ Gel Lube Features

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Turn Yourself On With The Fleshlight AND Better Sex Essentials® Gel Sex Lube That Stays Put!

The most imaginative masturbator ever, the Fleshlight combines a hard plastic outer case with a soft ultra-realistic inside sleeve for the most thrilling ride of your life.

The Fleshlight
• Designed for an amazing and realistic experience
• Closed end for super suction sensations
• Textured exterior for a firmer grip
• Discreet appearence hides perfectly in plain sight

• FREE lube and a "tip sheet" included

The BetterSex Essentials Gel Sex Lube
• Thicker formula stays put
• Natural feel
• Water soluble, non staining
• Condom and toy safe

It looks like a flashlight, but when you pop the cap off, you'll see why the Fleshlight is rated one of our top-selling male masturbators. The exterior is a hard plastic case, so you don't feel your hand while you're stroking away at the realistic pussy inside. And the case lets you place the Fleshlight almost anywhere for hands-free adventures.

The inside is almost two lbs. of soft, snug ultra-realistic material, molded to look exactly like the real thing. You'll feel so good when you lube up and slide between the sculpted lips that hug your erection in a tight, warm grip. Just unscrew the top, remove the PVC tube packed into the Fleshlight, and slide deep into the sleeve. You can thrust all the way, too, because the Fleshlight is a full 8" deep. Unscrew the bottom cap slightly to create the suction that feels good for you.

This sex toy is compatible with water-based lubes; try the Better Sex Essentials® Gel Personal Lubricant. It is not recommended to be used with silicone lubes. After use, carefully wash the sex toy with mild soap and water or try the Better Sex Essentials® Toy Cleaner for even quicker cleanup. Store this sex toy separately from other sex toys.

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100% Phthalate-Free, Ultra-Realistic, Latex-free


8 inches





Customer Reviews - Fleshlight & Better Sex Essentials™ Gel Lube

You won't regret it!!!!!   

The2ofus on July 29, 2013

We had never tried anything like this but after reading the reviews I figured if we were going to try one, then the Fleshlight & Better Sex Essentials seemed to be the way to go. I could not have made a better choice!!! My fiancé was shocked when he felt how realistic the Fleshlight was, I have to admit even I was surprised. The Fleshlight is a little heavier than I expected but totally worth it if you want a great experience and to be honest, in the right position its just fine. The first night I got him got him going then decided to bring out the Fleshlight and WOW!!!! The adjustable suction is wonderful even though he was the one inside of it I could feel a drastic difference as I adjusted it because I was the one using it on him and it got really tight which felt great to him. To him it felt almost like the real thing and he was able to fit all the way in it without any problems. Clean up is a breeze, you just take it apart, rinse and let it dry. The outside case is not a indicator of what is inside so if somebody catches a glimpse they wouldn't even know! The Better Sex Essentials Lube that comes with it is awesome. It is a gel so it is very easy to control without spilling it or making a mess. I put a little in to lube up the Fleshlight before we started and never had to add more. I threw our other lube away!! It is not scented and water based so people like us that are sensitive to chemicals can use this without worry!!
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Gimme More.   

luiso203 on November 19, 2012

Just when you think things can get any better, you run into this. They just got better. I would say this is a good investment! It helps to relieve that "ITCH" for some action! And for all anybody knows this could prevent an unwanted pregnancy! This fleshlight feels very good. Other fleshlights actually feel too tight or too fake, but this one nailed it. It's very realistic, and it reminds me of when I first had sex. Besides this machine doesn't require a lot of maintenance, just soak it in warm water after use. Everything is as easy as 1,2,3. I rate this 9/10. Every man should have one in case something goes wrong in bed. It's a wonderful product!
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Better Together   

Miss Kay on July 20, 2010

This kit works well together. These two can be purchased for less than what most other websites would sell the Fleshlight alone for. The lubricant has a very thick consistency and lubricates well. We found that, during an entire session, we didn't have to re-lubricate it once when using the Gel Lubricant in this kit. Very little of this stuff goes a long way - and in a good way. As for the Fleshlight itself, the boyfriend is split on whether he likes it or not. It feels pleasurably and perfectly tight. It's not too tight, but it's tight enough to be pleasurable. The problem that we had was with the actual inner texture. The Original Lady, which is what this is, doesn't really have an inner texture. It has a nice, tight entrance, but there isn't any ridging or anything like that on the inside. Because of that, it just wasn't very stimulating and didn't feel like a good addition to masturbation. I've heard tons of great things about this Fleshlight type though, so I'd imagine that others may have a better experience than we did. If you are looking to dip your toes into the wonders of a Fleshlight, I'd recommend picking up this kit. Our experience seems to be the exception to the rule.
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Kjgx on May 15, 2010

I can use the fleshlight at anytime and it has greatly increased my performance. It is the best feeling sex toy I have ever had because it feels close to a real vagina. It doesn't smell like previous sex toys that I have had. The thing about this toy is that it is very expensive but well worth the cost if you have enough money to spend
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Anonymous on September 17, 2009

I just received my Fleshlight and I could not believe the satisfaction it gave me. I cannot wait to use it again when I get home from work. Every time I think about it I get aroused. Amazing Product!!!!!!
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Wonderful Toy   

Anonymous on February 20, 2009

I searched for years and bought many masturbators. Some were garbage, others were adequate, but I think the Fleshlight is the best there is. I am a firm believer that masturbation is a wonderful gift from God, and this toy will help any man enjoy this gift more than he thought possible.
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High quality toy   

jethmoty on November 8, 2008

I was very impressed the different options you have when ordering this toy. My wife talked me into ordering it and it is my first toy of this kind. It feels great and is very comfortable and pleasurable. I used it a lot to practice postponing ejaculation and it was a very useful tool. The only reason I did not give this 5 stars is the size. It is large and I would not travel with it. If you do not have a masturbater this is a high quality choice and probably the only one you would need.
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A solid package   

Anonymous on October 14, 2008

Lets start off by saying the fleshlight is a fantastic masturbator. Tha material is like no other masturbator I've ever used. It almost has the consistancy of pizza dough. It is super stretchy, and easy to clean. Beyond that, once it is cleaned the first time, the material sticks together like chewing gum. Add a little water or lube, and the stickyness goes away immediately. This toy, however, is not stealth at all. They say that it looks like a flashlight, and anybody who doesn't know what it is will just assume it is just a plain old light. Well, First, I've never seen such a huge handheld flashlight without a lightbulb. Second, the twist cap on the back end makes enough noise that you can't even use it secretly. The twist cap does add a little suction, but mostly just adds a lot more noise and makes using it a little more frustrating. I found the best sensations and easiest operation came from removing the back cap entirely. It is indeed very large, and for the first time, I wasn't bottoming out at the back, or gradually ripping a masturbator in half due to my size. This is a great toy for any man, especially for us bigger guys. The Bettersex gel lube is truly great. Unlike most other water based lubes, this stuff stays where it is applied. It's almost like clear runny jello. It stays slick for a long time, and doesn't make a mess. My only complaint about it is that it doesn't offer as much slippery feeling as traditional water based lubes. All in all, I purchased this package, and am more than satisfied. With very mild and nit-picky style issues, I can't give it a perfect score, but it's not far off. Also, ladies, if you are looking for something to surprise your man with, this is a great idea. My wife thought is looked a little cumbersome and intimidating. After she slid it onto my equipment and gave it a few pumps, she changed her tune. Truly a smart purchase for anybody who likes to masturbate... I guess that any man would love to have one of these.
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