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LoveTool Nine: Sharing Dreams
Do you and your partner share the same dreams? If you haven’t already at some point in your relationship, you may consider setting aside an evening to ask each other what your dreams and aspirations are. These can include topics like family, career, living situation, pastimes, etc.
Discuss each item in terms of your individual desires first. Listen carefully to your partner without putting yourself in the picture. Feel free to ask questions, but keep in mind that individual interests are healthy and necessary in a good relationship. Once you both have spoken about yourselves, revisit the topics in terms of you both as a couple. The idea here is to develop intimacy, find and nurture the common ground between you.
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