We are hoping that Paris ’ stint on the farm taught her that everything has a rhythm. Day follows night, you milk the cows in the morning and slow down when you are having sex. Good sex – just like good writing, good cooking and just about good anything – needs timing and suspense. Suspense is best achieved by keeping some secrets, as hard as this may be to do in our voyeuristic culture. A knowing look, as hard as this may be for the “Simple Life’s” star, could be just as (to use one of Paris ’ favorite phrases) “hot” as teenage panting. Timing is really about pacing and we can sum up our advice here succinctly and simply – SLOW DOWN.
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If sex with a partner is going to be better than sex with yourself, both parties need to at least acknowledge the other. It is possible, as Paris and her excited and fast partner prove, to have sex with yourself while someone else is in the room, of course this is not nearly as much fun. Guide your partner, give your partner feedback, show them what you like and you will realize the benefits of sex as the ultimate team sport.
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Facilitate communication. How to actually talk about sex with your partner can be tough. Our Better Sex Video Series discusses communication and guidance extensively.
Great Couples' Sex Toys. Here are some sex toys that can help men last longer while helping women have orgasms more easily:
Sex by Yourself. Sex toys aren't just for couples; find out how to help yourself reach another level of self-pleasuring with these products:
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Lube is fun. It is slippery, exciting and useful since it makes things slide around. Lube is also a great foreplay aid (see Tip 4).
Our best-selling lube is our Sinclair Satiny Smooth and our suggestion is to buy the large size since this stuff goes fast and you don’t want to have a “lube emergency” and run out. We also like our Better Sex Love Potions Set because it includes massage and warming oil in addition to lubrication.
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Wham, bam thank you ma’am doesn’t work for us and it looked like it wasn’t really that great for Ms. Hilton. Take that time you’ve created from slowing down and do a little exploration. Discover your partner’s nooks and crannies. What does your partner taste like? Where are those secret spots that aren’t in any textbooks but work great for your significant other? Paint with your fingers. Use some warming lotion to warm up that engine. Learn some basic anatomy. Know where your partner is sensitive. If your partner is a man, then know something about his penis, which is sensitive just about anywhere, especially the head. If your partner is a woman, know how to find her clitoris and g-spot. Remember our first rule of thumb: when in doubt, ask! This piece of advice can save you from having bad sex over and over again.
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Good old foreplay. Can’t live without it (if you are a woman) and can’t kill it (if you are a man). Our advice, get creative and check out our ideas for foreplay in the Better Sex Video Series. Massage is always a good bet and we have several product suggestions.
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If you are an heiress and your partner shows up with a video camera, we suggest you find a new partner. Hello, what was Paris Hilton thinking? Returning to the land of the non-billionaires, we would stress that sex in a dark closet is about as fun as it sounds. Set the mood. Get out those candles you’ve been saving for the next time the power goes off, dim the lights, turn the television off and put on some sexy music. Life is a stage and great sex needs a little set decoration. We are visual animals. We take our clues from our partners and our surroundings. If your partner shows up with a camera, we suggest you exit stage left since that hardly counts as "stage setting."
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Good mood music
Good Mood Movies
Any adult movie with Jenna Jameson particularly the Masseuse.
Never seen an x-rated film? Our buyer Wayne suggests starting with one of these titles:
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To our customers: what tips would you have for Paris if, regrettably,
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