We habituate to anything making anything become boring over time. The speed at which we become bored seems to be speeding up. Think about it. We are bombarded with so much stimulation that we have to quickly know what to pay attention to and what to ignore. We are all suffering from mass cultural Attention Deficient Disorder (ADD). These changes in our brains have to affect our sex lives. We get bored faster with sex now too.
We’ve been hearing “my sex life is in a rut” from younger and younger people who’ve been together shorter periods of time supporting our mass cultural ADD idea. Fantasy is a great way to stave off habituation. Fantasy can make sex new again. We spent a lot of time on fantasy when we recreated the new adult sex education Better Sex Video Series ® last year because it is such a great way to handle the #1 complaint – my sex life is boring.

Why is wardrobe is so important to actors? Because slipping into character is easier when you are wearing a costume. Same rule applies to your sex life. Dress the part and you are half way there. Put on that pirate, cop or nurse costume, slip into character and you will break out of your sexual rut.

Sexy Adult Costumes To Rev Up Your Sex Life.

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Author: This article was written by Martin and the entire web team who are glad to show their parents some return on the money they spent on our education. We know we missed some great summer sex tips, so send your tips to msmith@bettersex.com and we will add them in. Have a great summer!

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